ゆりの世界

Since I've become a mom, I've been reading different articles about babies and parenting.
Some of them really upset me while I couldn't agree with our society's critism on other.

What upset me the most is the one with S Korean couple starving their baby girl because they were too busy playing online game. If you don't have time or unable to raise a child, don't have it!
If you still decide to have it (which I think is very irresponsible) at least what you could do is hand it over to somebody else who can take care of it and give it love. To put the baby up online for sale is a bit extreme but at least the baby will live on.

I don't agree with the view of bringing your kids up as an investment for your golden years. You give birth to either a baby boy or girl, not a doctor, lawyer or rocket scientist! As a parent, you make sure that your kids get lots of love and a good foundation to start its life.
As your child grows up, it will find its own path and develop its own personality. In other words, the little vurnable baby that lied in your arms will have its own mind, will and his/her own plans of what to do with his/her life.
Your child doesn't owe you anything, not even love, because a parents' love is unconditional.
I choose to have my baby, my baby didn't choose to have me. I love my little JT with all my heart but he doesn't owe me a thing, not now and not later!